This is my personal account of how i manifested love quickly and almost effortlessly. I am a firm a believer we can manifest a specific person or the idea of a person.
“To win love, fill yourself with it until it becomes a magnet.” Charles F. Haanel
The Persian mystic and poet Rumi once said that our mission is not to seek love, but to “seek and find within yourself all the obstacles you have built up against it.”
When I first read this quote in my early 20s, it didn’t make sense to me. I wondered why someone put up barriers within themselves to prevent true love from entering their lives. After all, aren’t we all looking for our own ‘happy forever’ version?
When I encountered the popular New Age philosophy, the Law of Attraction, I understood its words better. The law simply states that you attract everything you focus on. In one of New-Ager’s cults, “The Secret,” experts claim that if you think hard enough about what you want, you will make it manifest.
People who adopt this idea believe that they will manifest it just by thinking about their ideals and romantic love hopes. Sceptics see it as nothing more than a pseudoscience sold to the ranks. However, it is important to remember that the newfound popularity of the principles goes back much more.
Buddha said, “What you have become is what you think.” This feeling became popular in the West when William Walker Atkinson, editor of New Thought magazine, published his book “The Vibration of Thought, or the Law of Attraction in the World of Thought”, which was rapidly accepted among his contemporaries in 1906.
Even if you don’t believe that thoughts emit energy that pulls things at the same frequency, you can still benefit from studying the beliefs that dominate your subconscious mind. When it comes to relationships, there are hidden beliefs and patterns from past experiences that can have a significant impact on your choices and behaviours in close connections.
When you allow your unconsciousness to run the show, you are stuck in a never-ending cycle of unsatisfactory and heartbreaking relationships. While you might want to attract a healthy partner on the surface, in real life you may be pulling the opposite. The good news is that you can break the cycle by recognizing subconscious patterns that prevent you from finding the love you want.
According to Harville Hendrix, author and founder of Imago Relationship Therapy, romantic love offers a partner that triggers the same frustrations we have with our parents to surface and heal our childhood wounds. For example, if you were criticized as a child growing up, you will probably be quite sensitive to a partner’s criticism. Feelings of abandonment, neglect, and pressure will also emerge in our relationship patterns.
These unresolved fundamental problems arising from our childhood wounds, coupled with the relationship burden we have accumulated over the years, are the obstacles that Mevlana mentions in his teachings. There are many techniques you can use to write on harmful thoughts, such as visualization, cognitive behavioural therapy, EFT, and holistic methods.
When I combined the Law of Attraction tools with traditional therapy to understand and improve the complex dynamics in my upbringing, I noticed a gradual change in the trajectory of my life. I began to see the pieces of the puzzle fit into place, and it became increasingly clear that if we did the inner work, there was an established order for the universe working in our favour.
How I manifested love! I also felt lonely before manifesting love. Perhaps this article is useful for you if you feel very lonely.