The Success Guardian

Have you ever really, really wanted to manifest love or something else for a long time and it never came? It turns out that the more you want it, the farther it has gone from you?

Maybe it was money, a relationship or a different life situation.

Has it ever appeared out of nowhere, the moment you gave up on it and moved on with your life?

This is the power of surrender. Sometimes wanting something “too hard” leads to focus on the lack. You fall into despair. The moment you let it go, “Bah! I’m fine with you or without you!” you suddenly get what you want.

This is common in lonely people who crave relationships. They can’t get loneliness out of their minds. They reflect on it. Pain is noticed even by others and drives them away.

Then, the moment they surrender and realize that it is perfectly fine to be single, someone suddenly enters his life.

You must be good with yourself first in order to manifest love.

Your degree of acceptance will determine the quality of your relationship. If you try to manifest love while full of despair and your self-esteem is low, you can be truly successful, but the relationship will be almost certainly on par. You can drive your partner away, unconsciously create drama in your relationship, or – more likely – attract a partner who isn’t good for you. You can definitely manifest love but perhaps not the right kind.

There are insanely addicted people out there who cling like a magnet to helpless loners. Do you want to shoot someone like this?

Being grateful to your friends is a good strategy for building better relationships.

Being grateful to your friends is a good strategy for building better relationships.

How to Use the Law of Attraction for Love (and It’s Not Missing)

Rather than looking into the emptiness of your loneliness and hoping for someone to show up, the best way to create a relationship with a good partner is to fill that void yourself first. After all, happy, self-sufficient people attract people of the same type.

Here are some tips you can implement that will help you slowly transform you into the kind of person who can easily attract or manifest love:

Number 1 to Manifest Love: Be Grateful For The Relationships You Have

First of all, using the “secret” to get what you want involves developing a sense of gratitude.

This can be difficult in our society because we are programmed to complain about what’s wrong in our lives. Often, we may not even be aware that there are solutions for our problems and accept them as a fact of life.

Your loneliness is not a fact of life. Whether you are alone or not, you can be grateful for what you have.

What relationships do you enjoy in your life anyway?

Do you have friends that you are close to? Do you have a loving family? Do you have a good relationship with yourself?

Is there someone you already consider romantic but continue to poison the connection by asking yourself when it will turn into a “real” relationship? Are you pushing the person away with demands and desperation?

Relax. Look around. Even if it may be difficult to see through the lens of loneliness at first, there is always something to be grateful for.

Something as simple as going out into nature and revisiting your relationship with the animals and plants that live there can make a difference.

Learn more about gratitude here

Number 2: Stop Judging

Most of the things that keep us close to connections are being overly judgmental about the people who emerge in our lives. Having a solid “must-have” list of a mile long for our prospective partner is often just a form of self-sabotage.

The truth is, you may not even know what will make you happy. Relax a little bit. Stop focusing so much on the perfection of everything and welcome those who come happily. This will signal the world to send more.

Number 3: Don’t sell yourself short

Just as it is stupid to expect your partner to fulfil your every wish and desire, you should not settle for anything far below reasonable standards because you think “you can’t do better”.

It doesn’t matter how impulsive you think you are; no one deserves a partner who abuses or disrespects them. Watch out for signs of someone who mistreats you and knows when to get away – even if that means being alone.

Sometimes “Universe” will test you this way. You will get a bad match and he will wait and politely see if you have the strength to refuse.

Number 4: Forget the “romcom” Ending; Create Your Own Story

Having a good relationship doesn’t mean the relationship will be perfect or even lasting. Remember that you will be pulling someone to match you at a given moment If you or your spouse changes, the relationship may no longer be compatible. Sometimes we need to learn from a relationship and move on when we’re done.

This is very good and not a failure. This is just life. Let go of the need to live “happily ever after”. This is cultural programming that can ironically interfere with true happiness.

Instead, create your own story. How would you like the relationship to be? Imagine this in your mind as vividly as you can. If you can do this without lacking, learn as much as you can.

Number 5: Use Visualization

When you imagine your partner, make it as real in your mind as you can. Imagine yourself walking towards this person and starting a conversation. Rehearse many times in your mind so you’re prepared when it’s time to connect.

Learn more about creative visualization here.

This will not only help you be more confident in yourself, but it will also prepare your mind for looking for opportunities.

Use this powerful meditation technique to manifest love FAST.

Number 6: Submit Your Mating Call

Don’t be shy when you’re ready! Send your intention to the world. Tell everyone that you know you are looking for a partner.

Just remember not to send this message needy, otherwise, it may backfire. Be confident, state what you want and happily invite new people into your life.

If you are too shy to admit that you are looking for a relationship then you will have a hard time finding a relationship. Do what you want as clearly as possible.

# 7: Build a Good Life, Then Invite Others

If you live a life you love, people will naturally attract you in groups. Someone who truly feels the joy of being alive every day is so rare that it arouses people’s curiosity. It will also attract a good partner.

So one of the best strategies for you to manifest love in your life is to build the foundation first. Create a life for yourself and watch the right people flow into it.

Still, be careful here. “Right life” does not mean “the life I think will find a mate for me”. This is a trap. Many people force a job they hate making money to attract a marriage partner. Often, this leads to a miserable marriage.

Be creative and build the right life for you. The right partners for you will come naturally then.

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