A young lady once asked me: can you use the secret to attract a specific person? A quick answer is YES, definitely! But…do you really want to? Why aren’t you together in the first place?
You can show love to the specific person you want if you have a deep belief that you can be with them. When you fully believe that you can be with the person, you will be a vibrating combination with your desire.
What is The Secret?
- The Secret is a documentary and book from Rhonda Byrne that discusses the Law of Attraction. It advocates the notion of thoughts being things. You can see some quotes on love below:
- “When you want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don’t contradict your desires.. Think about what you have asked for, and make sure that your actions are mirroring what you expect to receive, and that they’re not contradicting what you‘ve asked for. Act as if you are receiving it. Do exactly what you would do if you were receiving it today, and take actions in your life to reflect that powerful expectation. Make room to receive your desires, and as you do, you are sending out that powerful signal of expectation.”
- “Remember that your thoughts are the primary cause of everything.”
- “You will attract everything that you require. If it’s money you need you will attract it. If it’s people you need you’ll attract it. You’ve got to pay attention to what you’re attracted to, because as you hold images of what you want, you’re going to be attracted to things and they’re going to be attracted to you. But it literally moves into physical reality with and through you. And it does that by law.” (Bob Proctor)
- “Every thought of yours is a real thing – a force.”
If your vibration matches your desire, you will be in harmony with the loving relationship with the specific person you desire. When this happens, you really have a loving relationship with the specific person.
Start calming down and focus on yourself. Focus on what it would be like to have a relationship with this person. Are you tense, worried, scared, or doubtful?
If you feel anything less than good, you are not meeting your needs. You actually block it. You must release these lower vibrating energies. Release tension, fear and doubt.
Cut yourself some slack
It’s normal that sometimes you just want to give up. You may have resigned yourself to the single life, even though deep down you know that you still long for love.
The good news, however, is that no matter how bleak your experiences, it is possible to show love! Sometimes even with a specific person.
Trust the Process
As you work to manifest your soul mate, the last stage of your journey to attract love is cultivating patience. Embrace this sense of peace by accepting that you will give what you need.
While you have focused on showing love to a specific person, seeking love through Law of Attraction techniques is based on your ability to trust the process and that God knows exactly what kind of partner can help you to to show lasting love. If you are going to find your soul mate, do not worry.
Lots of fun. When you start making it a task, an effort, or something, it frustrates you when things seem to stagnate or even don’t happen.
Things happen as soon as you set your intention. Don’t give God a deadline. Let it happen naturally and that is always when you are in the right place and not before.